Supporting Children with Developmental Differences in Childcare Part 3
- tashaalach
- May 20
- 4 min read
A strengths-based and neuro-affirming approach for early childhood educators

1. Start with relationships and trust
Before conversations about development take place, it is essential that childcare teams focus on building strong relationships with both the child and their family.
Children who experience developmental differences may need more time to feel safe in new environments.
They may take longer to:
trust new adults
engage in group activities
separate from parents
explore unfamiliar environments
This is completely okay.
Children learn best when they feel:
safe
secure
understood
emotionally supported
Relationship-based practice is a key principle of effective early childhood intervention.
2. Create a safe and predictable environment
Some children need more time and flexibility to settle into childcare environments. Educators may need to adjust expectations about participation.
For example:
If a child does not sit at mat time, that is okay
If a child prefers to observe before joining in, that is okay
If a child participates through movement rather than sitting still, that can still be meaningful engagement
The priority is that the child feels regulated and comfortable in the environment.
Children learn best within natural environments and everyday routines, including childcare settings.
3. Support participation rather than exclusion
When children find the environment challenging, families are sometimes asked to collect their child early or reduce attendance.
While this may occasionally be necessary, it should not be the first response.
Instead, educators should focus on supporting participation through environmental adjustments.
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Strategies may include:
using the child’s interests to motivate engagement
following the child’s lead during play
providing visual supports and routines
offering quieter spaces
allowing flexible participation in group activities
4. Build a strengths-based child profile
Once a strong relationship is established, educators can develop a strengths-based child profile.
This profile may include:
Interests = What activities capture the child’s attention?
Strengths = What does the child enjoy or do well?
Communication style = How does the child communicate their needs?
Sensory preferences = What environments help the child feel calm?
Areas for development = Where might additional support help participation?
5. Talking with families about developmental concerns
Conversations with families about development should always be approached with sensitivity and respect.
Helpful strategies include:
starting with strengths
sharing observations rather than assumptions
asking families what they notice at home
exploring next steps together
Example:
"We've noticed how much Sam enjoys building and exploring with blocks. We've also seen that group activities can sometimes be challenging. We were wondering what you are noticing at home and whether it might be helpful to explore some additional supports together."

Questions educators can ask families
Some helpful questions when discussing development include:
What does your child enjoy most at home?
Are there situations your child finds challenging?
What strategies work well for your child?
Have you spoken with your GP or any therapists before?
Would you like support exploring additional services?
These questions help create collaborative conversations with families.
6. Participation-based intervention planning
Participation-based practice focuses on helping children engage in everyday routines rather than only targeting isolated skills.
Educators can ask:
What helps the child participate in this activity?
How can we adapt the environment to support them?
Are there ways the child can participate differently?
7. Capacity building
Rather than therapists taking over intervention, they support the people in the child’s everyday life.
This may involve therapists:
modelling strategies with educators
providing visual supports
demonstrating regulation strategies
coaching educators on practical supports
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8. Natural learning environments
Children learn best within everyday environments such as:
childcare settings
home environments
playgrounds
community settings
Embedding strategies within daily routines helps children practise skills in meaningful ways.
9. Make inclusion a whole-centre approach
Supporting children with additional needs should never sit with just one educator.
A whole-centre approach means:
all educators understand the strategies being used
routines are consistent across staff
leadership teams support inclusive practices
management oversees how families are supported
10. Access support through the Inclusion Support Program
Early childhood services can access support through the Inclusion Support Program (ISP). Services may work with inclusion agencies such as Innovative Solutions, who support centres to:
develop inclusion plans
adapt learning environments
build educator capability
implement inclusive strategies
More information:https://www.education.gov.au/inclusion-support-program
11. Apply for Inclusion Development Funding
Centres may apply for Inclusion Development Funding (IDF) to support children who require additional assistance to participate.
This funding may support:
additional educators
environmental adjustments
inclusion strategies recommended by therapists
12. Connecting families with professional support
Childcare centres play an important role in linking families with professionals such as:
speech pathologists
occupational therapists
developmental paediatricians
psychologists
Families may also visit their GP, who can provide referrals and support access to Medicare therapy rebates through a Chronic Disease Management Plan.
13. Collaborating with therapists
Collaboration between educators and therapists can significantly improve outcomes for children.
Leadership teams can support this by:
establishing communication with therapists
sharing observations
embedding strategies into daily routines
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14. The transdisciplinary approach
The guidelines recommend a transdisciplinary approach, where professionals work together rather than separately.
In this model:
educators, therapists and families share knowledge
strategies are used across environments
goals are developed collaboratively





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